When we christened our change management company ‘Cheeky Monkey’ we were warned it would be a marmite thing – people would either love it or hate it. We were good with that. We are emotional, we want people to be emotional, and we wanted our name to be a catalyst for that process.
We did not want to be wallpaper
How many times a day do you say “I love… something” and mean it? You know, the heart beating faster, adrenalin pumping, couldn’t be happier that you have that thing or are in that place or with that person you love.
How many times a day do you say “I hate… something” and mean it? The feeling of disgust swirling inside, a sickly view that you just don’t want to be part of or a place that you don’t want to be in, something that you would be willing to take a stand against.
How many days go by when you don’t say either you love or hate something?
How many days are you just wallpaper?
When you work on delivering change, everyday something amazing happens, good and bad, it’s a roller-coaster of highs and lows. We struggle to recruit staff because not everyone is comfortable with that, people think they are until they have to surrender themselves to these emotions day in day out, then we realise, many people are more comfortable being wallpaper.
Why?
There are many reasons why people are less emotional than they used to be.
My personal favourites are:
- Political correctness
- The “everyone’s a winner” mentality
- Fear of having the spotlight on you by rocking the boat
You will have your own theories which we hope you will share.
Life is not better for this; we are not better people because of this.
One of our partners said:
“If there are people out there that love Cheeky Monkey, you need to keep the name because there are not many things people openly love any more.”
That has got to be one of the saddest statements I have heard in a long time.
Surrender to love
Today, open yourself up to your emotions, find something you love or a place that you love to be in, or even better a person you love to be with. Face it, feel it, and then tell someone about it because there is no better feeling, it will make a difference to your day.





